Central Mexico · Mexico · Elopement Curator

Mexico City

19.43°N · 99.13°W

Not a photographer for hire, a curator for the whole day: I design it, plan it, book it, style it, photograph it, film it, and hand it back to you. A complete companion to eloping in Mexico City.

Mexico City elopement photographer | Arman Arai

Mexico City is the oldest and grandest capital in the Americas, a high-altitude metropolis of art-nouveau domes and Aztec canals, world-class food and painted colonial villages, with the pyramids of Teotihuacán an hour to the north and, for a few weeks each spring, streets that bloom entirely purple. It is the most surprising place I photograph in Mexico.

I do not just show up to shoot. I design the day around you, book every piece of it, the officiant, the florals, the permits, the boat, the dinner, then photograph and film it and deliver the record. One person, start to finish. The ceremony is symbolic, the legal marriage stays quiet and at home, and the day in the capital is only the part that matters.

Best monthsNov to Apr
The curationEnd to end
Packages from$8,700 USD
Guides on file6
Why an elopement, and why me

The Spiritual Union

An elopement is unlike a wedding. Whereas the wedding is purely focused on aesthetics and performance, elopements are about the spiritual merge: the two of you, a place that means something, and a day built to be lived instead of performed. Done right, it is the most honest set of photographs a couple will ever have. Done by committee, it falls apart in ways you only see later, in the pictures.

An elopement day designed and photographed by Arman Arai
Buy a package from a planner

and the day is beautifully arranged, but there is no real “photographer” involved. The pictures come back looking like they were taken on a smartphone. You planned a film and got a receipt.

Bring your own photographer

and you get a good eye with no say in the day. There is a disconnect between what the plan was and what the pictures turn out to be, because the person shooting it did not build it.

Work with me

and you get the best of both worlds. I am a photographer first who plans the entire thing, then brings it home. The person who designs the light is the person standing in it with a camera.

Everyone else plans a day around an activity.
I write a story and play it through one.

It starts with your story, never a location. Before I plan a single thing, I sit with you and listen: how you met, what you are like when no one is watching, the small private details no one else would think to ask for. I write that into a narrative, and then I design the day to play it out. The hike, the boat, the drive up the mountain, that is only the vessel I run your story through, here in Mexico City.

This is why the film and the album land the way they do. They are built to carry your story, beat by beat, so that years from now they still move you. Anyone can film two people doing something photogenic in a beautiful place. Turning who you actually are into a film and a set of stills that mean something is the harder thing, and it is the whole of what separates me from everyone else.

What it means to just be present.

Every extra person on an elopement is a seam. A planner to update, a second photographer angling for the same shot, a small crowd of vendors to be aware of. Each one pulls you a little out of the day, and the pictures inherit that split. The reason I hold the whole thing, the plan and the camera, is so that on the day there is no one to manage and no one to perform for.

Present means you are only ever looking at each other. You are not thinking about the schedule, because I am. You forget the camera is there, and that is the exact moment the real frames happen.

Arman Arai, elopement photographer and curator
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The Directory

6 dispatches on file

Everything I have filed about eloping in Mexico City, organized by what you are trying to figure out. Start with the how-to guide, then come back for the specific pieces as your planning develops.

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Real Elopements

Four days I photographed in Mexico City

Four elopements from my Mexico City archive, written the way I remember them: the light, the location, what the city gave us that day. Open any card to read the full story.

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The Packages

Three tiers · all-inclusive*, priced in USD

One person plans, books, styles, photographs, films, and delivers your Mexico City elopement. Not photography hours, a curated experience. Three tiers, each all-inclusive* of what I run on the ground, and each with its own album.

Three ways to elope in Mexico City. Each is the whole experience, designed, planned, booked, styled, and shot by one person, and each comes with its own album. The tier sets how many days the trip runs and how much of it becomes a honeymoon. Everything is listed. There is no hourly meter and no add-on column.

Tier I

Essential

$8,700 USD
3 days / 2 nights · all-inclusive*
The Keepsake Album · 20 pages
  • A designed three-day, two-night itinerary
  • Symbolic ceremony, officiant and styling
  • One signature location: the historic centre or Coyoacán
  • Photography with videography, shot by me alone
  • Planning, permits, local fixer and transport
  • A curated, hand-edited gallery
Tier II · Recommended

Curated Signature

$16,500 USD
4 days / 3 nights · all-inclusive*
The Signature Album · 40 pages, layflat
Everything in Essential, plus:
  • A fuller four-day, three-night pace
  • A cinematic film of the day, cut by hand
  • Richer florals, hair and makeup
  • A local fixer with you throughout
Experiences woven in
  • ·A private trajinera on the Xochimilco canals
  • ·A morning in Coyoacán's cobbled streets
  • ·A tasting-menu dinner at one of the great tables
Tier III

Curated Adventuremoon

$23,500 USD
5 days / 4 nights · elopement + honeymoon
The Heirloom Album · fine-art, boxed
Everything in Signature, plus:
  • The wedding and honeymoon woven into one journey
  • Upgraded photography, film and design moments
  • Full fixer support across the whole trip
Experiences woven in
  • ·A sunrise balloon over the Teotihuacán pyramids
  • ·A day at Teotihuacán and the Avenue of the Dead
  • ·A lucha libre night and a mezcalería crawl
  • ·Casa Luis Barragán and the modernist city
Signature locations in Mexico City

The historic centre and Palacio de Bellas Artes · The Xochimilco canals and trajineras · The Teotihuacán pyramids at dawn · Coyoacán and the jacaranda streets · Casa Luis Barragán and the modernist city · Roma and Condesa, leafy and art-deco

*All-Inclusive covers everything I curate and run: planning, the symbolic ceremony, styling, activities, the dining on your itinerary, permits, local transport, and photography with videography. It does not include airfare or accommodation, which you book yourself. I am glad to recommend where to stay, but for legal reasons I do not book travel or lodging on your behalf.

The Elopement Compass — find your archetype
Start here

Find your elopement archetype first.

Before the date, the tier, or the locations, take two minutes and find the kind of day you are actually after. It is where every day I design begins, and it tells me exactly where to point you in Mexico City, Mexico.

Take the Elopement Compass →
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The Experiences

What you will actually do

This is what you are really paying for. Not photography hours, but a handful of extraordinary days I design, book, and run for you, each one a chapter of the elopement. Turn the album: the photograph on one page, what it is on the other.

Photograph to come
Vows in the Historic Centre
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The ceremony · a rooftop over the Zócalo
Vows in the Historic Centre
At the end of the day we take a rooftop terrace above the historic centre, with the tiled dome of Bellas Artes and the cathedral towers catching the low sun. You read your vows with a thousand years of capital stacked below you and the volcanoes on the horizon. Nowhere else looks like this.
Included in every tier
Tap sides · swipe to turn pages
The day itself

How your elopement day goes

Once you have your archetype, here is how the day itself actually goes. Nothing here is your job to arrange. It is already arranged.

Step 01

The slow morning

No rush, no room full of people. You get ready in your own time while I quietly catch the first frames: the note, the shoes, the light coming up.

Step 02

We begin the story

We do not work a shot list. We live the day I designed around you, and I document it as it unfolds across Mexico City, chasing the light I have already mapped.

Step 03

The vows

Your words, out loud, with no audience but the place and me. This is the quietest and the most important part of the day, and I shoot it from a distance so it stays yours.

Step 04

Through the activity

The hike, the boat, the dinner, the drive. This is where the story plays out and the best pictures live, because you are doing something real together, not posing beside it.

Step 05

The last hour of light

I plan the whole day backward from it. When it arrives we are exactly where we need to be, unhurried, with time to spare.

Step 06

The record

It comes back not as files but as a finished thing: a curated gallery, and on the Signature, a cinematic film and a printed album. The day, kept.

The full guide · free

The Mexico Elopement Guide

Before Mexico City, the bigger picture. I wrote the complete guide to eloping in Mexico: the cities and coasts worth building a day around, how the symbolic ceremony works while the legal side stays simple, the seasons, and what it honestly costs. It is the same thinking behind every day I design, in one place.

Read The Mexico Elopement Guide
Eloping in Mexico, near Mexico City, photographed by Arman Arai
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The Timeline

A sample plan, counted backward from your date

A Mexico City elopement has fewer moving parts than couples expect, because the ceremony is symbolic and I handle the ground. This is the order it runs in, from the first decision to the morning itself.

3 to 4 months01

Date, location, and photographer

For a dry-season date, or the short jacaranda bloom in spring, book these first. A rooftop over the centre, the Xochimilco canals, or a balloon over Teotihuacán, and me to photograph it, are the decisions everything else follows from.

8 weeks02

Handle the legal marriage at home

The Mexico City ceremony is symbolic, so almost every couple completes the binding civil marriage quietly at home before the trip. It keeps the day about the vows, not the paperwork.

6 weeks03

Book your flights and stay

Airfare and accommodation are the two things you arrange yourself, for legal reasons. I am glad to recommend where to stay, from a boutique hotel in Roma to a colonial house in the centre, and I build the itinerary around it.

3 weeks04

Scout light, permits and the balloon

I confirm the rooftop and site permits, the exact hour of light at each location, and, for couples who want it, the Teotihuacán balloon window and the Xochimilco boat. The city is huge, so the day is planned around traffic and light.

The day05

Follow the light, eat everything

Mexico City rewards the unhurried. Your only job is to be in it. I bring the capital home with you.

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The Company I Keep

Introductions on request

The planners, hotels, restaurants, and experience operators I recommend to couples eloping in Mexico City. Every name here has been vetted directly. If you want a warm introduction to any of them, mention it when you write.

Ask and I will make warm introductions to the planners, boutique hotels, and operators I trust in the capital.

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Questions

The ones couples ask first

The questions I hear most often from couples planning a Mexico City elopement, answered plainly. If yours is not here, it will be in my first reply when you reach out.

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From the Journal

Mexico City dispatches

Longer reads for couples who want to go deeper: the balloon over Teotihuacán, the jacaranda streets, the dry-season timing, and what each Mexico City backdrop actually delivers.


Begin

Tell me about your day in Mexico City.

Share your date and I will come back within 48 hours with availability, an honest estimate, and the rooftops, the canals, and the pyramids I would point you toward.

Find your archetype first

Est. 1999 · Travelling worldwide · Priced in USD

The Elopement GazetteMexico City Companion · Set in Cormorant & Jost · Figures are all-inclusive* of curation, excluding airfare and accommodation