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The Best Places to Elope in Ontario

Castles and ruins, three wine regions, waterfalls, Great Lakes beaches, and the wild north. A photographer's curated shortlist of where to elope in Ontario, every frame my own.

Couples ask me for the single best place to elope in Ontario, and there is no single answer, because Ontario is enormous and it does almost everything well. Castles and ruined chapels. Wine country on three different lakes. Waterfalls you can stand under. Granite and white pine two hours from downtown Toronto. This is my working shortlist, grouped the way I actually plan a day, with the venues I send couples to and the towns to find them in.

A note on the pictures: every frame here is mine, shot on location in Ontario. The venues named are the ones worth building a day around. When you find the one that pulls at you, I will book it, plan the whole day, and photograph and film it myself.

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Best places to elope in Ontario by Arman Arai
Photograph — Canada · the picture moves
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Castles, estates, and ruins

For couples who want old stone and grandeur, Ontario has more of it than people expect. Dundurn Castle in Hamilton and Graydon Hall Manor in Toronto give you full estate drama. The Doctor's House in Kleinburg and the Elsie Perrin Williams Estate in London give you heritage rooms and gardens. And for something stranger and more cinematic, the St. Raphael's Ruins in Glengarry, a roofless stone church open to the sky, is one of the most atmospheric ceremony sites in the province.

Historic estate elopement in Ontario by Arman Arai
Heritage rooms and grounds, the Ontario estate look. Photograph by Arman Arai. — stationary
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Castles, estates, and ruins

Historic estate elopement in Ontario by Arman Arai
Heritage rooms and grounds, the Ontario estate look. Photograph by Arman Arai. — stationary

For couples who want old stone and grandeur, Ontario has more of it than people expect. Dundurn Castle in Hamilton and Graydon Hall Manor in Toronto give you full estate drama. The Doctor's House in Kleinburg and the Elsie Perrin Williams Estate in London give you heritage rooms and gardens. And for something stranger and more cinematic, the St. Raphael's Ruins in Glengarry, a roofless stone church open to the sky, is one of the most atmospheric ceremony sites in the province.

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Wine country

Ontario has three serious wine regions, and each makes a beautiful elopement. Niagara-on-the-Lake is the classic, vines and old-world estates a short drive from the falls. Prince Edward County, two hours east of Toronto, is the design-forward one, and I have a full guide to it. Along Lake Erie, Sprucewood Shores near Amherstburg and Burning Kiln near St. Williams give you the quieter, southern version. Vines running to the water, a table under the sky, a room to stay in.

If wine country is your lean, read the full Prince Edward County venues guide.

Winery elopement in Ontario by Arman Arai
Vines to the water in Prince Edward County. Photograph by Arman Arai. — stationary
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Waterfalls and the escarpment

Adventure elopement on Ontario rock by Arman Arai
Rock, water, and height, the adventurous side of Ontario. Photograph by Arman Arai. — stationary

Hamilton calls itself the waterfall capital of the world, and it is not far off. Tews Falls and Dundas Peak give you a gorge and a long view. Albion Falls and the smaller cascades along the escarpment give you moss and moving water. Push further and the Elora Gorge and the Bruce Peninsula deliver cliffs, turquoise water, and genuine drama. This is the adventurous, feet-on-rock side of an Ontario elopement.

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Gardens and orchards

For colour and softness, Ontario's gardens are underused. The Niagara Parks Floral Showhouse and botanical gardens stay vivid year-round, which makes them the rare Ontario setting that works in deep winter. Whistling Gardens in Wilsonville and Kurtz Orchard in Niagara-on-the-Lake give you cultivated beauty and fruit-tree rows. Even Victoria Park in Kitchener holds up for a small, symmetrical ceremony in the middle of the city.

More on this: eloping in Niagara Parks.

Garden elopement at Niagara Parks by Arman Arai
The Niagara Parks Floral Showhouse, colour in any season. Photograph by Arman Arai. — stationary
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Waterfront and beaches

Waterfront elopement in Ontario by Arman Arai
Lakeside design at the Drake Devonshire, Prince Edward County. Photograph by Arman Arai. — stationary

Ontario's shorelines are its quiet secret. The Lake Huron coast around Goderich and Bayfield has some of the best sunsets in Canada, the sun setting straight into freshwater that stretches to the horizon. On Lake Ontario, the Drake Devonshire in Prince Edward County gives you a design hotel right on the water. For the couple who wants the beach without the ocean, this is where I take them.

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The north: Muskoka and Algonquin

Two hours north of Toronto the province turns wild. Muskoka's lakes and granite, Algonquin's log lodges and endless forest, the Georgian Bay coast at Killbear with its wind-bent pines. In autumn the maples turn the whole region red. This is the classic Ontario wilderness elopement, and the one I photograph most.

The full version: the best places to elope in Muskoka.

Muskoka wilderness elopement in Ontario by Arman Arai
Killbear Provincial Park on Georgian Bay, the wild north. Photograph by Arman Arai. — stationary
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The city, and unique stays

Boutique farm-hotel elopement in Ontario by Arman Arai
A restored farm-hotel, marry and stay in one place. Photograph by Arman Arai. — stationary

Toronto itself still earns a place: the Distillery District's Victorian brick, the art-deco R.C. Harris Water Treatment Plant, the Toronto Islands with the skyline across the water. And for couples who want the venue to be the whole experience, Ontario is full of design-forward stays, boutique farm-hotels, forest cabins, and restored barns, where you marry, sleep, and eat in one place. The Eddie Hotel and Farm in the County is my favourite of them.

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How I run an Ontario elopement

You do not have to pick from this list alone. Tell me the feeling you are after, old stone or wine country, waterfall or beach, city or deep forest, and I will find the venue, book it, handle the licence and the officiant, plan the day around the light, and photograph and film the whole thing myself. One person, start to finish.

Twelve years and 240+ couples in, the couples who let me match the place to the story, rather than chasing a location because it looked good online, are the ones who came home with a day that felt like theirs.

See how a Toronto and Ontario elopement comes together →

Page twelve — Classified dispatches
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