A couple standing alone at the edge of a vast wild landscape at first light
The Elopement Guide
For Two · 2026
so you want to

Elope

You have no idea where to begin. That is exactly who this is for.

First, the truth

An elopement is a real wedding.
It is just yours.

Forget the courthouse rush and the idea that eloping means running away. A modern elopement is a full wedding day designed around two things only: the two of you, and the place you choose to stand in.

It can be a sunrise on a cliff. A helicopter onto a glacier. A dinner for two under a sky with no light for a hundred miles. There is no guest list to perform for and no schedule that belongs to anyone but you.

A couple embracing alone at the edge of a vast mountain valley at golden hour
No crowd. No performance. Just the light.
The honest comparison

A wedding, and the other way

A traditional wedding
Guests
80 to 200 people to host, feed, and manage
The day
A timeline built around the reception
Where the money goes
Venue, catering, open bar, the flowers nobody remembers
Your role
Host. You will barely sit down.
The photos
You, and 180 other people
An elopement
Guests
Two. Sometimes a witness. Sometimes no one.
The day
A timeline built around the light and the place
Where the money goes
The experience, the location, the memory itself
Your role
Present. You do nothing but be there.
The photos
Only the two of you, in a place you will never forget

Neither is wrong. One of them is just far more likely to feel like the day you actually wanted.

How it actually works

Six steps, start to married

01

Pick your direction

Two roads. Stay in Canada, close to home, legally simple, and drive to a mountain or a coast. Or leave the country for a landscape you have only seen in films. Everything else follows from this one choice.

02

Choose the landscape

The place is the whole point. A glacial lake, a cliff over the Atlantic, a desert dune at last light, a vineyard terrace. You are not booking a ballroom. You are choosing the view you will stand in when you say the words.

03

Design the experience

This is where an elopement stops being small. A helicopter to a glacier. A canoe on a mirror lake at dawn. A private dinner for two under the stars. The day is built around what the two of you actually want to do.

04

Handle the legal part

Every place has its own paperwork. A licence, a witness, a window of days you have to be in the country. It is not hard once someone maps it for you, and it is the part most couples worry about for no reason.

05

Dress for the place, build the timeline

What you wear on a Patagonian ridge is not what you wear on a Greek cliff. Then the hours get set around the light: when the sun rises, when it goes gold, when the location is empty of everyone but you.

06

Show up and get married

No receiving line. No seating chart. No performance for two hundred people. Just the two of you, the place, the light, and a day that belongs entirely to you.

A couple on the shore of a turquoise glacial lake in the Canadian Rockies at dawn
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Canada

Close to home, and legally the simplest place on earth to get married. A licence, two witnesses, and you can marry anywhere the light is good.

The glacial lakes of Banff. The rainforest coast of Tofino. The wine country of the Okanagan. The old-world streets of Quebec. No passport, no customs, no jet lag on your elopement day.

Read the Canadian Elopement Guide →
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Anywhere

If you are going to design a day from nothing, you may as well set it somewhere that stops you breathing. A landscape you have only ever seen in films. These are the places couples ask me for most.

Mexico
Cenotes, deserts, colonial gold
Costa Rica
Cloud forest and Pacific coast
Patagonia
The end of the world
Greece
White cliffs, blue Aegean
Portugal
Atlantic cliffs and light
Spain
Andalusia and the north coast
Morocco
Sahara dunes and desert camps
Iceland
Waterfalls, black sand, ice
Scotland
Highlands, lochs, and mist
A couple walking a colonial street at dawn, balconies and shuttered windows above them
A sense of scale

The same vow, a very different view

Iceland · waterfalls, black sand, ice
Iceland · waterfalls, black sand, ice
Patagonia · the end of the world
Patagonia · the end of the world
Greece · white cliffs, blue Aegean
Greece · white cliffs, blue Aegean
Morocco · the Sahara at last light
Morocco · the Sahara at last light
Portugal · the Atlantic edge
Portugal · the Atlantic edge
Scotland · highlands and mist
Scotland · highlands and mist
What is actually possible

The day can be as big or as still as you want it

A wedding hands you a template. An elopement hands you a blank day and the whole world to spend it in. Here are twelve of the ways couples have chosen to say the words.

Land on a glacier01

Land on a glacier

A helicopter lifts you out of the valley and sets you down on ice no road can reach. You marry where almost no one has stood.

Rise at first light02

Rise at first light

A hot air balloon at dawn. The valley goes gold beneath you and the whole world is quiet except the burner and the two of you.

Reach a summit03

Reach a summit

Hike in before sunrise and stand on a peak above a sea of clouds. The vow, and then the entire sky turning over for you.

Ride out04

Ride out

Two horses, an open plain, and a slow ride to the spot where you say the words. No car, no road, just the land.

Drift at dawn05

Drift at dawn

A canoe on a mirror lake before the world wakes up. Mist on the water, the mountains upside down beneath you, complete silence.

Sail the coast06

Sail the coast

A boat off a wild coastline at golden hour. Cast off, marry on the water, and let the sea be the only guest.

Soak in a hot spring07

Soak in a hot spring

A steaming geothermal pool ringed by snow. Cold air, warm water, and nowhere else you need to be.

Picnic in the vines08

Picnic in the vines

A blanket in a vineyard at golden hour, a good bottle, rolling hills. A wedding that feels like the best afternoon of your life.

Wander an old town09

Wander an old town

Empty cobblestone streets at first light before anyone is awake. Just the two of you and a city that feels like it opened only for you.

Dinner for two10

Dinner for two

A table on a cliff at blue hour. Candles, a bottle, the two of you, and nobody else for the rest of the night.

Marry under the stars11

Marry under the stars

A night ceremony under a sky with no light for a hundred miles. The Milky Way overhead and a single lantern between you.

Walk a wild beach12

Walk a wild beach

An endless empty shore at sunset, wind in the gown, sea foam at your feet, and not a single other soul in sight.

And if none of these is quite it, we build the one that is. The list is not the limit. It is the starting point.

Now, the catch

All of this is a lot of work.
I do all of it for you.

Everything on this page, the direction, the landscape, the helicopter, the permit, the dinner, the timeline built around the exact minute the light goes gold, is real. It is also a lot to figure out alone, in a country you have never been to, in a language you may not speak. That is the whole of what I do. I am an elopement curator. Here is exactly how it works when you hand it to me.

01

We talk, and you tell me a feeling

Not a spreadsheet. A feeling. Warm and slow, or wild and remote. A rough place, or no place at all. From one conversation I understand the day you are actually after, even the parts you cannot name yet.

02

I design the whole day

I choose the location and scout the exact spot, then build the hours around the light: when the sun rises, when it turns gold, when your place is empty of everyone but you. The route, the timing, the experiences. All of it, drawn before you land.

03

I book every single piece

The helicopter. The officiant. The permit for the national park. The private dinner. The florals. The stay. The car that gets you there. You approve it. I arrange it. Nothing is left for you to chase.

04

I handle the legal part

Every country has its own paperwork and its own timing. The licence, the witnesses, the days you must be in the country before you can marry. I map it, tell you exactly what to bring, and make sure the marriage is real and recognised at home.

05

On the day, I run it so you don't

You wake up with nothing to manage. No vendor calls, no timeline to watch, no decisions. I hold all of it and quietly move the day around you. You are free to be completely present, which is the entire point of eloping.

06

I photograph and film it myself

The same person who designed the day is the one behind the camera. I know the light because I planned for it. I know the moment is coming because I built the day toward it. Nothing is handed off to a stranger.

And the pictures

What you actually get to keep

Film-inspired and editorial. Warm grain, true color, and light I planned for hours in advance. Not stiff poses and forced smiles, but the two of you inside a place so large it makes the moment feel eternal. Quiet, cinematic, and unmistakably yours. You leave with a gallery, and a short film that plays like a memory.

The two of you, and the scale of the place
The two of you, and the scale of the place
Light I planned for, hours in advance
Light I planned for, hours in advance
The moments a wedding never leaves room for
The moments a wedding never leaves room for
Warm grain, true color, nothing staged
Warm grain, true color, nothing staged
A couple alone in a vast landscape at golden hour
let’s design

the day that is yours