Riviera Nayarit · Mexico · Elopement Curator

Sayulita

20.87°N · 105.44°W

Not a photographer for hire, a curator for the whole day: I design it, plan it, book it, style it, photograph it, film it, and hand it back to you. A complete companion to eloping in Sayulita.

Sayulita elopement photographer | Arman Arai

Sayulita is the boho heart of the Riviera Nayarit, a jungle-backed surf town an hour north of Puerto Vallarta where the main beach is strung with papel picado, the cobblestone streets run wild with colour and street art, and the Pacific delivers a sunset every single night. Offshore, the Marietas Islands hide a beach inside a crater. It is the most relaxed, most colourful place I photograph in Mexico.

I do not just show up to shoot. I design the day around you, book every piece of it, the officiant, the florals, the boat, the dinner, the permits, then photograph and film it and deliver the record. One person, start to finish. The ceremony is symbolic, the legal marriage stays quiet and at home, and the Pacific day is only the part that matters.

Best monthsNov to Apr
The curationEnd to end
Packages from$8,500 USD
Guides on file6
Why an elopement, and why me

The Spiritual Union

An elopement is unlike a wedding. Whereas the wedding is purely focused on aesthetics and performance, elopements are about the spiritual merge: the two of you, a place that means something, and a day built to be lived instead of performed. Done right, it is the most honest set of photographs a couple will ever have. Done by committee, it falls apart in ways you only see later, in the pictures.

An elopement day designed and photographed by Arman Arai
Buy a package from a planner

and the day is beautifully arranged, but there is no real “photographer” involved. The pictures come back looking like they were taken on a smartphone. You planned a film and got a receipt.

Bring your own photographer

and you get a good eye with no say in the day. There is a disconnect between what the plan was and what the pictures turn out to be, because the person shooting it did not build it.

Work with me

and you get the best of both worlds. I am a photographer first who plans the entire thing, then brings it home. The person who designs the light is the person standing in it with a camera.

Everyone else plans a day around an activity.
I write a story and play it through one.

It starts with your story, never a location. Before I plan a single thing, I sit with you and listen: how you met, what you are like when no one is watching, the small private details no one else would think to ask for. I write that into a narrative, and then I design the day to play it out. The hike, the boat, the drive up the mountain, that is only the vessel I run your story through, here in Sayulita.

This is why the film and the album land the way they do. They are built to carry your story, beat by beat, so that years from now they still move you. Anyone can film two people doing something photogenic in a beautiful place. Turning who you actually are into a film and a set of stills that mean something is the harder thing, and it is the whole of what separates me from everyone else.

What it means to just be present.

Every extra person on an elopement is a seam. A planner to update, a second photographer angling for the same shot, a small crowd of vendors to be aware of. Each one pulls you a little out of the day, and the pictures inherit that split. The reason I hold the whole thing, the plan and the camera, is so that on the day there is no one to manage and no one to perform for.

Present means you are only ever looking at each other. You are not thinking about the schedule, because I am. You forget the camera is there, and that is the exact moment the real frames happen.

Arman Arai, elopement photographer and curator
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The Directory

6 dispatches on file

Everything I have filed about eloping in Sayulita, organized by what you are trying to figure out. Start with the how-to guide, then come back for the specific pieces as your planning develops.

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Real Elopements

Four days I photographed in Sayulita

Four elopements from my Sayulita archive, written the way I remember them: the light, the location, what the town and the Pacific gave us that day. Open any card to read the full story.

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The Packages

Three tiers · all-inclusive*, priced in USD

One person plans, books, styles, photographs, films, and delivers your Sayulita elopement. Not photography hours, a curated experience. Three tiers, each all-inclusive* of what I run on the ground, and each with its own album.

Three ways to elope in Sayulita. Each is the whole experience, designed, planned, booked, styled, and shot by one person, and each comes with its own album. The tier sets how many days the trip runs and how much of it becomes a honeymoon. Everything is listed. There is no hourly meter and no add-on column.

Tier I

Essential

$8,500 USD
3 days / 2 nights · all-inclusive*
The Keepsake Album · 20 pages
  • A designed three-day, two-night itinerary
  • Symbolic ceremony, officiant and styling
  • One signature location: the beach or the town
  • Photography with videography, shot by me alone
  • Planning, permits, local fixer and transport
  • A curated, hand-edited gallery
Tier II · Recommended

Curated Signature

$15,000 USD
4 days / 3 nights · all-inclusive*
The Signature Album · 40 pages, layflat
Everything in Essential, plus:
  • A fuller four-day, three-night pace
  • A cinematic film of the day, cut by hand
  • Richer florals, hair and makeup
  • A local fixer with you throughout
Experiences woven in
  • ·A private boat to the Marietas hidden beach
  • ·A golden-hour session on Playa de los Muertos
  • ·A beachfront dinner at Don Pedro's
Tier III

Curated Adventuremoon

$21,000 USD
5 days / 4 nights · elopement + honeymoon
The Heirloom Album · fine-art, boxed
Everything in Signature, plus:
  • The wedding and honeymoon woven into one journey
  • Upgraded photography, film and design moments
  • Full fixer support across the whole trip
Experiences woven in
  • ·A surf lesson in the Sayulita break
  • ·A day in quieter San Pancho, next door
  • ·A Monkey Mountain jungle hike
  • ·A Huichol art and mezcal evening
Signature locations in Sayulita

Sayulita main beach and the papel picado · The colourful cobblestone streets · Playa de los Muertos, through the jungle · The Marietas Islands hidden beach · San Pancho, next door · Monkey Mountain and the jungle

Frames from Sayulita

A few of mine, from this coast

An Elopement Collection
Sayulita
Arman Arai · Sayulita
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*All-Inclusive covers everything I curate and run: planning, the symbolic ceremony, styling, activities, the dining on your itinerary, permits, local transport, and photography with videography. It does not include airfare or accommodation, which you book yourself. I am glad to recommend where to stay, but for legal reasons I do not book travel or lodging on your behalf.

The Elopement Compass — find your archetype
Start here

Find your elopement archetype first.

Before the date, the tier, or the locations, take two minutes and find the kind of day you are actually after. It is where every day I design begins, and it tells me exactly where to point you in Sayulita, Mexico.

Take the Elopement Compass →
The day itself

How your elopement day goes

Once you have your archetype, here is how the day itself actually goes. Nothing here is your job to arrange. It is already arranged.

Step 01

The slow morning

No rush, no room full of people. You get ready in your own time while I quietly catch the first frames: the note, the shoes, the light coming up.

Step 02

We begin the story

We do not work a shot list. We live the day I designed around you, and I document it as it unfolds across Sayulita, chasing the light I have already mapped.

Step 03

The vows

Your words, out loud, with no audience but the place and me. This is the quietest and the most important part of the day, and I shoot it from a distance so it stays yours.

Step 04

Through the activity

The hike, the boat, the dinner, the drive. This is where the story plays out and the best pictures live, because you are doing something real together, not posing beside it.

Step 05

The last hour of light

I plan the whole day backward from it. When it arrives we are exactly where we need to be, unhurried, with time to spare.

Step 06

The record

It comes back not as files but as a finished thing: a curated gallery, and on the Signature, a cinematic film and a printed album. The day, kept.

The full guide · free

The Mexico Elopement Guide

Before Sayulita, the bigger picture. I wrote the complete guide to eloping in Mexico: the cities and coasts worth building a day around, how the symbolic ceremony works while the legal side stays simple, the seasons, and what it honestly costs. It is the same thinking behind every day I design, in one place.

Read The Mexico Elopement Guide
Eloping in Mexico, near Sayulita, photographed by Arman Arai
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The Timeline

A sample plan, counted backward from your date

A Sayulita elopement has fewer moving parts than couples expect, because the ceremony is symbolic and I handle the ground. This is the order it runs in, from the first decision to the morning itself.

3 to 4 months01

Date, location, and photographer

For a November-through-April date, book these first. The beach under the banners, the painted streets, or a boat to the Marietas, and me to photograph it, are the decisions everything else follows from.

8 weeks02

Handle the legal marriage at home

The Sayulita ceremony is symbolic, so almost every couple completes the binding civil marriage quietly at home before the trip. It keeps the Pacific day about the vows, not the paperwork.

6 weeks03

Book your flights and stay

Airfare and accommodation are the two things you arrange yourself, for legal reasons. I am glad to recommend where to stay, from a jungle-view casita to a beach hotel in town, and I build the itinerary around it.

3 weeks04

Scout light and boats

I confirm the Marietas access window, the surf and tide, and the exact hour of light at each location. The reserve is strictly permitted, so the boat day in particular gets planned down to the hour.

The day05

Go barefoot, follow the light

Sayulita runs on island time and so do we. Your only job is to be in it. I bring the Pacific home with you.

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The Company I Keep

Introductions on request

The planners, hotels, restaurants, and surf and boat operators I recommend to couples eloping in Sayulita. Every name here has been vetted directly. If you want a warm introduction to any of them, mention it when you write.

Ask and I will make warm introductions to the planners, boutique hotels, and boat captains I trust on this coast.

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Questions

The ones couples ask first

The questions I hear most often from couples planning a Sayulita elopement, answered plainly. If yours is not here, it will be in my first reply when you reach out.

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From the Journal

Sayulita dispatches

Longer reads for couples who want to go deeper: the Marietas access, the boho streets, the whale-season timing, and what each Sayulita backdrop actually delivers.


Begin

Tell me about your day in Sayulita.

Share your date and I will come back within 48 hours with availability, an honest estimate, and the beach, the streets, and the islands I would point you toward.

Find your archetype first

Est. 1999 · Travelling worldwide · Priced in USD

The Elopement GazetteSayulita Companion · Set in Cormorant & Jost · Figures are all-inclusive* of curation, excluding airfare and accommodation